Normally when a guy cheats, your first instinct is to run. Okay, well mine is to cry, then run… to the nearest cocktail lounge. But in today’s clip, Cosmo Editor Lesley gives us a scenario when it’s OKAY to forgive your philandering boyfriend.

So, I understand that settling down can be scary, but honestly what would you do if your fiancé cheated on you? I’m pretty sure I would have some serious doubts about going through with the wedding. Can we get some guys and gals to weigh in on this one?